You think you need to love someone, you think you want a girlfriend, even if you are 'unable' to find one.
You really wanted that girl (aka, obsession), but you failed to make anything between you and her, now you want to hook up with any girl just to satisfy your deep 'need' of a girlfriend.Ah well, that's what I think your situation is. At least taht was my situation in the beginning of this year, but I forced my mind to think in another things. I made my brain think I certainly don't want a girlfriend.
There's a problem with this girl though. She's one of those partying types. She drinks and parties. All the time. Then she tells me about how many guys she's made out with, completely oblivious to the fact that at that very moment, I want to slit my own throat.
Don't let yourself get interested. Plenty of my friends have "suffered" due to girls like these. My advice is to not look for a *girlfriend*; look for a *girl* that you find attractive (on more than a physical level).
I know more or less how you feel, though. It's a bizarre aspect of the human mind that we seem programmed - or doomed, depending on how you look at it - to fall in love with people, even when our own good sense and past experience dictate against it. I say unless you think you've really got a long-term chance with this girl, run for your life.
probably too late to fix the mess you made. But I can tell you this: you'll NEVER get a girl by letting her know you'r all crazy about her. That just says "I'm a wuss". fail.
You need to ignore her a little, tease her little (just a hint of mean but not too much). Just dont CHASE her. And don't like flatter her all the time. Be a little aloft (whatever the word in english is).Remember: girls love bad boys
I'm not emo or contemplating suicide. I'm just a little lovesick.
You think you need to love someone, you think you want a girlfriend, even if you are 'unable' to find one.
You really wanted that girl (aka, obsession), but you failed to make anything between you and her, now you want to hook up with any girl just to satisfy your deep 'need' of a girlfriend.Ah well, that's what I think your situation is. At least taht was my situation in the beginning of this year, but I forced my mind to think in another things. I made my brain think I certainly don't want a girlfriend.but hot girls make the world go round
I'm feeling the exact same way right now.
Not really. Unless you're some sort of omniscient being and you know how I feel, don't jump to your little conclusions.
lmfao
Anyway, hope yeh get better, Zip.Polystyrene Man dispenses good advice, as usual.
I know more or less how you feel, though. It's a bizarre aspect of the human mind that we seem programmed - or doomed, depending on how you look at it - to fall in love with people, even when our own good sense and past experience dictate against it. I say unless you think you've really got a long-term chance with this girl, run for your life.probably too late to fix the mess you made. But I can tell you this: you'll NEVER get a girl by letting her know you'r all crazy about her. That just says "I'm a wuss". fail.
You need to ignore her a little, tease her little (just a hint of mean but not too much). Just dont CHASE her. And don't like flatter her all the time. Be a little aloft (whatever the word in english is).Remember: girls love bad boys