Seems quite a few people are talking about girls in their blogs this time of year - guess it's human breeding season. To tell the truth, this is the annoying part of the year, because I get a lot of immature girls starting to like me… for some weird reason it's always during this time of year. Now, I ain't bragging, I'm not proud of the fact I sometimes have a few girls who have the hots for me.. just stating it as it is.
To tell the truth, I feel if I am to go out with someone, preferably a girl, it needs to be someone I consider a companion and I deeply love. I'm just sick and tired of the immature so-called 'love' that goes around my school throughout the year. People date, talk for 5 minutes, then kiss, break their own beds the same night for unstated reasons, and then breaking the guys bed (or a hotel bed) together the second night. That's not love, that's lust. I ain't going to go into some big complaint about it all, I guess that's just how some people enjoy their lives. I personally would rather wait till I leave school before I start dating a girl - I'm not saying I won't go out with someone before I do leave school, it's very possible - but I'm very particular with dating… I ain't going to just date a girl because she has big boobies and goes to the shopping plaza every weekend to buy a new wardrobe of clothes. So this year, we got a new girl come to my school. We've only just started school, and already she told the big-mouth she finds me attractive, and has started asking this big-mouth questions about me… well, this guy unfortunately does the wrong things with good intentions. He starts talking to her a lot about my life - the time I saved him from suspension when he punched me in the stomach, how I study music and guitar, and how I am particularly experienced with computers… I would hope my nerdiness would turn her off, but she seems even more interested. Fact is, she's based all this interest in me based on my looks - so that's one thing I don't like about her… So the big-mouth starts trying to hook me up with her, thinking I actually have the same thoughts about her as she does to me… which I clearly don't. And he does it in the most immature way possible - drags her to my group and is like "so, what type of music do you guys like?" - and she answers as what seemed to be rehearsed comment "Oh I love music, I go home turn on my computer and.. gah, i'm obsessed with it" - thats the longest thing I've ever heard her say, she's heck shy. And so, to prove i'm not exactly interested, I kind of go straight to the point and say "Ok, well in most cases like this everyone pretends that the meeting happens coincidentally - but I may as well go straight to the point and say this guy is dying to get me hooked up with you.", and GAAAAH It was a really annoying lunchtime.So yeah, then we shagged. No, we didn't. I didn't speak to her again, and don't plan to. The big-mouth actually made her chances with me worse, because he's made her friggin too shy to speak to me, and I don't particularly care to talk to her either. Then tonight, I've been getting tons of school-mates on MSN going "aaah you have a girlfriend she's so hot"… *sigh*. So there's my girly story. RegardsRhys Andrews
You sound like one of them SJF. Me? Nah. I'm happy with my social life as it is. Got plenty of friends, and laddy friends too. Not going to bomb that with something as stressful as girlfriends.
Good Luck RA. Try and come out of it alive Mmmkay?I agree with you on your views of dating… I care more about having a lasting relationship, and a good one, than a 'short and sweet' one.
Women act this way because it's close to valentines day, duh.
@E-Magination
HahahaLove… There is no such thing.
Care to hear about the love life of somebody your age?It all started with the meeting, then it proceeded to the clean hypothetical questioning, then the actual asking out, then… Nothing at all. The fact is that high school girls are the most confusing people on the face of the planet. They somehow manage to latch on and keep their distance at the same time. So overall I think the best way to go about high school romance is the shallow way: get sex. You will have plenty of time for actual dating when you are out of school, right now you should focus on the ability to get girls, and not on the actual dating of them.But yeah, just my thoughts.