RA - Girls Galore

Posted by RhysAndrews on Feb. 8, 2007, 6:03 a.m.

Seems quite a few people are talking about girls in their blogs this time of year - guess it's human breeding season. To tell the truth, this is the annoying part of the year, because I get a lot of immature girls starting to like me… for some weird reason it's always during this time of year. Now, I ain't bragging, I'm not proud of the fact I sometimes have a few girls who have the hots for me.. just stating it as it is.

To tell the truth, I feel if I am to go out with someone, preferably a girl, it needs to be someone I consider a companion and I deeply love. I'm just sick and tired of the immature so-called 'love' that goes around my school throughout the year. People date, talk for 5 minutes, then kiss, break their own beds the same night for unstated reasons, and then breaking the guys bed (or a hotel bed) together the second night. That's not love, that's lust. I ain't going to go into some big complaint about it all, I guess that's just how some people enjoy their lives. I personally would rather wait till I leave school before I start dating a girl - I'm not saying I won't go out with someone before I do leave school, it's very possible - but I'm very particular with dating… I ain't going to just date a girl because she has big boobies and goes to the shopping plaza every weekend to buy a new wardrobe of clothes.

So this year, we got a new girl come to my school. We've only just started school, and already she told the big-mouth she finds me attractive, and has started asking this big-mouth questions about me… well, this guy unfortunately does the wrong things with good intentions. He starts talking to her a lot about my life - the time I saved him from suspension when he punched me in the stomach, how I study music and guitar, and how I am particularly experienced with computers… I would hope my nerdiness would turn her off, but she seems even more interested. Fact is, she's based all this interest in me based on my looks - so that's one thing I don't like about her…

So the big-mouth starts trying to hook me up with her, thinking I actually have the same thoughts about her as she does to me… which I clearly don't. And he does it in the most immature way possible - drags her to my group and is like "so, what type of music do you guys like?" - and she answers as what seemed to be rehearsed comment "Oh I love music, I go home turn on my computer and.. gah, i'm obsessed with it" - thats the longest thing I've ever heard her say, she's heck shy. And so, to prove i'm not exactly interested, I kind of go straight to the point and say "Ok, well in most cases like this everyone pretends that the meeting happens coincidentally - but I may as well go straight to the point and say this guy is dying to get me hooked up with you.", and GAAAAH It was a really annoying lunchtime.

So yeah, then we shagged. No, we didn't. I didn't speak to her again, and don't plan to. The big-mouth actually made her chances with me worse, because he's made her friggin too shy to speak to me, and I don't particularly care to talk to her either. Then tonight, I've been getting tons of school-mates on MSN going "aaah you have a girlfriend she's so hot"… *sigh*. So there's my girly story.

Regards

Rhys Andrews

Comments

Arcalyth 17 years, 9 months ago

A girl asked me to a dance, but we're just going as friends.

First time anything like that has happened to me, though.

Bryan 17 years, 9 months ago

Thanks for reminding me to get a valentine =). I don't got really pretty people in my class… Poor me….

I don't care about it that it isn't serious thought.

Just for fun =)

SleepinJohnnyFish 17 years, 9 months ago

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The funny thing is I think people do a lot better when they are really young (i.e six/seven) and they 'love' someone.

Now, this may not be true, but it seems to me that they like the other person for who they are more so than how 'cute' they are.
That is true only because at that age, they understand love to be wanting to be with someone forever, and since they are too young to notice fatal flaws and such that will come up later, such as infidelity and money issues, as well as basic personality incompatibilities. At that age, you just have fun and play and run around, so it feels just as love is normally portrayed, like a care-free life of happiness.

Also, I know this doesn't seem very SJF-like, but I want to mention that I don't support sex before marriage, not for religious reasons, but more for the fact that it serves only to confuse things before that point. It is a sign of a lack of will if you truly can not stop yourself from having sex.

The exception of course being with me and your mom… but come on…

RhysAndrews 17 years, 9 months ago

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i would have been very surprise if you has shagged XD
For being 15? Sheesh. 80% of the people in my year have probably flipped out a penis to a girl at some point in time. There was one guy (a huuge junkie) who made a chart so he could list how many people he'd had sex with… and it's freaking long.

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So overall I think the best way to go about high school romance is the shallow way: get sex
Not interested :) - Sex is a much more beautiful thing when it's an act of love, not an act of lust. So I'll wait till then.

SJF, I fully understand what you're saying - it plays a huge part in my opinion, I just didn't want to elaborate enough to explain all that! At this point in life, everyone's hormones hit the ceiling then sink underground, and it's especially true with girls… huge highs, insane lows.

Regards

Rhys

Grand-High Gamer 17 years, 9 months ago

To be honest, its sad. That teenagers today have such low moral standards they're just slaves to their hormones. So yeah - I'm not getting any. [:p]

OBELISK 17 years, 9 months ago

Give her to me then, damn.

Jk.

A while ago, some random girl comes up to me and asks,"You're hot, what's your number?" I don't tell her or anything because she seemed like the big mouth you were just talking about. Now that I know a little more about her, I regret that so fucking much. Your situation's probably different though, and I respect that.

Acid 17 years, 9 months ago

I'm not that good looking but a know at least 4 girls who like me. A few have asked me out too. I'm flatter and confused in their taste in boys.

BTW, I feel the same way as SJF about pre-marital sex.

Polystyrene Man 17 years, 9 months ago

Wow… this is the first time that I completely agree with SleepinJohnnyFish. I must be going to Hell.

Extravisual 17 years, 9 months ago

In my opinion, sex has nothing to do with love… Of course I don't doubt that my opinion will change after sex and a serious relationship, but until then hormones are my lord, and I shall follow them loyally.

Takagi 17 years, 9 months ago

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To tell the truth, I feel if I am to go out with someone, preferably a girl, it needs to be someone I consider a companion and I deeply love
If I had any feeling that you were immature, I tossed them out right about now.

And I agree with SleepinJohnnyFish.